I’ve been debating over this for a few days! And I’m hella’ scared posting this.
So #todayIWas Scared.
I feel we can overlook our achievements whilst surviving our Mental Health. I know it can be a struggle to get out of bed some mornings and if that is the case, and you manage it – I’m proud of your bravery!
Whilst I was walking to a meeting the other day, I took the opportunity to have a reflective walk and think about the times I, or someone I know, has struggled to complete the tasks most folk take for granted!
For me, my own personal thoughts, in recent months, surrounding having to face another day – interacting with anything living filled me with dread. I just wanted to lock myself away and sleep. But, i never celebrated the fact, I was able to motivate myself to get out of bed, get myself ready and get out of the house.
I strongly feel that these, personal achievements should be celebrated, no matter how small you feel that they are! They are relevant, they are important.
On that note, I wish to encourage you, at the end of the day, take some time to practice some self-care and just think “#TodayIWas”
This can be followed by anything – even if you are feeling low today, record it, use it as a point of reflection- and see how far you’ve come! (It is okay to have bad days!)
This needn’t be exclusive – if you’re supporting someone who’s struggling with their Mental Health then just think “#TodayIWas” a listener, a comforter. You can make a difference.
This was a bit of an impromptu post, so much so, I’ve posted on the mobile app, apologies if the format is all over the show!
It’d be lovely to see the use of #TodayIWas across social media platforms in order to celebrate everyone’s achievements π
Until next time;
Sorry you had such a bad day. Sending up prayers for better days to come.
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Thank you for your kind thoughts – I hope the post hasnβt been βlostβ but this was in regards to celebrating achievements π but thank you for your comments and wishes X
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This is a great post Abby! I think it’s so important to check in with ourselves on a daily basis and see how we’re feeling…and realize that it’s ok not to feel happy 100% of the time. It’s also important to reflect on if we’re being supportive of others. Thanks!
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Thank you so much! Iβm feeling a little down beat by it all to be fair! I was so excited about this idea and it feels like itβs got βlostβ
Thank you for your comment π
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What a fantastic post this is! I love the idea of reflection daily and am going to give this a go writing in my planner. I feel it will be really beneficial for my mental health to reflect and see it written down in black and white . Thank you π
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Thank you so much! π
Please feel free to share the hashtag – Iβd love to be able for this to be used as a reflection tool for those who are struggling or supporting someone with mental health! Have a lovely evening π
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Fab post and so cool youre promoting that hashtag. Self care and reflection is so important these days. Great idea! xx.
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Thank you sweet! I really hope it takes off to be fair, Iβd love to be able to support people – even if itβs by giving them something to aid self-care or reflective moments! π
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Wonderful post & I really like your idea of a daily #TodayIWas… I’ll definitely be sharing your post on FB & Twitter!
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Oh thank you lovely! π
Glad you like it too! π
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Thatβs a great idea for a hashtag π. You are right, sometimes we need to celebrate the small achievements like getting out of bed everyday. Depression can make the simpliest of things seem like a massive struggle. Itβs good to reflect and check in to see how we are feeling. Fantastic post and thank you for helping others who struggle with depression feel less alone in this π xx
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Thank you! Itβs really good to use as a reflection tool π and no problem – I know how lonely it can be! Iβd just like for people to be able to think theyβve achieved something no matter how small or big π
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This is completely true. Sometimes we take little things for granted, when even those little things have a causal effect.
Unfortunately I have gone through depression, though it never fully went away, I had to appreciate that with life, there’s hope and meaning to which I could give it.
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I think this is the conclusion I came to the beginning of this week! On a personal level, I was ALWAYS dragging myself down about things! But never stood back and thought βIβd managed to walk to the shop on my ownβ which I do sometimes struggle with. Instead Iβd be thinking βIβm such a baby that this scares meβ granted positive thinking wonβt be the answer to it! But celebrating those achievements gives (me) a sense of purpose π
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And well done for being strong and keeping on going! π
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A great idea, such a lovely way to remind ourselves, and others, that achievement is relative and, no matter what you personally class as an achievement, they all deserve celebration β€οΈ
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Thank you Rachael!
I feel that they can become quite overshadowed! Which is rather sad, when that could be the most difficult thing someone has done! π
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We all have those days where we need someone to listen to us. EVERYONE needs a friend like you otherwise they’ll go mentally insane. I think the lack of good friendships contributes to all the lonely people in the world. Thanks for comforting your friend despite being scared. Also please check out this blog, I’m promoting for a friend. https://soulunderconstruction.wordpress.com
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girl yes!! Personal achievements are something that absolutely should be celebrated alwaysβ¦ALL WAYS! Thatβs what keeps us working towards goals and building amazing memories in our lives!!
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Exactly!
Know i keep going on a personal level, but I can only speak from experience!
Iβve spoilt so many things for myself because it was literally NEGATIVE NEGATIVE NEGATIVE. Iβve been using this to reflect over the past few days and itβs made me actually feel free. Even when itβs been #todayiwas sad – I could think right; why am I sad, what can I do to change that?
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Sorry for that bad day! It’s a great a idea to reflect the day and I think I will start this evening as my day was full of anxiety. Hope to feel a little bit better after my ”thoughts”
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Thanks for your comment Helen – I hope this will help! Iβm sorry youβve had an anxious day, and hope you feel a little more at ease soon! X
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100% with you on celebrating personal achievements – this is a great post!
I have anxiety and depression and, like you mentioned, I used to forget to celebrate the things that I DID manage to do.
Now, at the end of every day I take a minute to think back and give myself a mental high five for the positive moments no matter how big or small; getting out of bed, meeting a friend, asking for something in a shop, etc.
And, btw the formatting is perfect π
Looking forward to catching up on your previous posts!
Stephanie || stepphhsays.com
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Thank you so much Steph!
I have anxiety and depression too! So I have a level of understanding what youβre going through! Reflection has been key in my recovery process!
I wrote the post super fast on the app! So couldnβt really see the actual format so thank you for the positive feedback π
I post once weekly on a Sunday (sometimes throw in an unplanned post) but Hello and welcome π
Abby x
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I really love the hashtag. Makes me realize that it’s okay to have bad days, sad emotions. That’s just life.
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Itβs great ainβt it (if I donβt say so myself)
But of course itβs okay to have bad days, weeks and so on! Youβre strong enough to overcome the bad, go at your own pace! π X
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This post is everything. I love the idea of reflecting on the day and being honest with yourself.
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Thank you π
I was so excited when I came up with it – even if this is successful for one person Iβm happy Iβd of helped someone else! π
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Little by little!
Also, don’t be afraid to share. You’re helping others as you’re helping yourself by posting your struggles and how you’ve overcome them.
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One of the reasons I like to blog about my mental health, I get some people may view it as βplease join my pity partyβ but itβs really not for that. I want to share in aim to help others π
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I woke up this morning and thought exactly the same thing. Every morning despite struggling I get myself out of bed and I do what needs to be done. That’s bad ass π€
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Yesss! Well done for battling that struggle π have a fabulous day! X
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I love this idea. We definitely overlook those small achievements which often mean SO much to us when suffering from mental health conditions – even if no one else notices or cares. Going into a shop is a huge achievement for me and I always feel proud of myself for it. I think Iβll be thinking a lot about that today! xxx
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Well done for being able to, and never stop feeling proud about it!
I get this completely- I struggle a lot with getting outside the house or on public transport unsupported. I rely so much on family members to take me to work and shopping which I always feel guilty over, and made to feel guilty over by those who just donβt understand! So anytime I make it on my own Iβm so proud ππ
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I am beyond proud of you. Mental illnesses are something that really honestly truly suck. You are so strong, and I am proud. Great post, I know this took a lot of courage xxx
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Thank you lovely! Itβs proved such a positive part of my week π Xx
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This is so important because everyone needs to celebrate what they’ve done. Thanks for sharing and best of luck.
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Thank you sweet! π
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This is a great idea! Sometimes it’s easy to focus on the negatives and not look at how strong we really are as people. I’ve recently started to think similarly to this, just in little ways and it’s really helpful, and now you’ve put a name / hashtag to it!
Vicky x
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Thank you Vicky!
I hope itβll help many π
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great post – everyone has their up and down moments in life and it’s just as good to address the positive as well as the negative so that we can learn to recognise the trigger points for each emotion. Mental illness has always been such a taboo topic but in today’s age it’s definitely becoming more understood and so more people are opening up. You’re sending a great message – keep it up xx
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Thank you Cheryl,
Iβm so up and down about this at the moment – i like to think Iβm doing more good than bad π Xx
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Lovely post and a brilliant idea. Never mind what dr who said. I’ll share and try and do this on twitter x
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Thank you Lauren :)! X
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I think this is such a wonderful idea babe! I adore that you’ve posted this blog post and been so honest. Thank you for sharing and I’ll be sure to use the hashtag on twitter. πΈπβ¨
With love, Alisha Valerie. x
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Thank you π would be fab if you can use the hashtag π
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Really good post and you’re so brave to be open about this-I can’t do it myself. Wise words – celebrating little achievements is important even if they seem so small. And self-care or “me time” is also sonething we should all do I need to remember to take tine just to relax as I’m always worrying I have so much to do. All the best
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Thank you dearest!
And youβll get there in time – Iβm still getting there too! Itβs so easy to start neglecting ourselves by worrying, itβs okay to slow down, go at your own pace π
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I’ve wasted so many years worrying but I am getting there.
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This is such a great idea! I was doing a ‘What makes me happy’ everyday but kept forgetting to post it or couldn’t think of anything that day so this is great as it allows you to reflect on how your day truly was and then you can try to improve the next day!
Jess xx
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Thank you π
It did start at as a βtoday I was braveβ but i thought that might put too much pressure on someone feeling they need to be brave or theyβre failing because they donβt feel brave! And I didnβt want that – this way itβs okay to feel any feeling, and use it to progress as and when youβre ready π Xx
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I love this and think that it is an idea that should take off. I am in full support
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Thank you – I really hope it does! When used properly i hope itβll be quite effective π
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This is so brave of you to share, but its a beautiful read! Good for you. I’ve given your blog a follow on WordPress too – can’t wait to read more! π
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Thank you darling! π
(I donβt know why but your blog name really makes me want to make cinnamon cupcakes with orange icing π sorry Iβm odd!) xx
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Omg no, not odd at all – inspiring! I should try to get a recipe up for something like that soon π
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Glad to be of help? I think haha! π x
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Thank you for saying this and putting yourself out there. Mental health can be so up and down, I know those days when you don’t want to move and hardly breath with the weight of depression and anxiety. Getting up and even just trying to do something is nothing less than a massive achievement. It’s hard, but truly the more we talk about this the better it gets.
Sending love β€
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Thank you darling!
Xx
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I really loved your post. Thank you for sharing.
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Thank you π
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Self reflection in the form of #TodayIWas is a great initiative. It doesn’t take too long, it doesn’t ask for too much but it can definitely help you start improving yourself and your relations with other people. I think I’ll start doing something like this as well!
Thank you for sharing!
Kanra Khan
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Thank you Kanra!
Hope it works well for you π
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This is such a great idea. It’s so good to remember that even on bad days there can be something positive to report OR if we can’t find that, it’s okay to own that it was a bad day! Take care π
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Thank you Nicole! π have a lovely day/evening
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This is such a lovely idea and I think it could be really helpful to people so thank you for starting this.
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Thank you Ellie, glad you liked it π
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I love reflecting like that! I tend to say a prayer before work that I hope God helps me be a better coworker, and be patient with people (this can be hard cause I’m not keen on my day job) and this type of reflection back on the day can really highlight strong points and areas to work on! Great idea!
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Thank you lovely!
Hope this helps at least one person! X
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